Looking for the Perfect Place

My wife and I have been looking for a place to build a house for the last year. We just can not find exactly what we want. I know that we have looking at every ad in the paper that says land for sale. I really do not know if we can spend any more time looking for land at this point. I finally told her last night that I thought that maybe we should just buy a house that is already built. That suggestion really did not go over very well at all. She just burst into tears and went to bed.